Um- because I “worked” with him for 3 years- it was called marriage and I was the only one working. It was shear hell.
He doesn’t want any more supervised visitation- well tough cookies buddy! Ya should have thought about that before I came to pick her up one day and found her out on the front porch playing with the neighborhood kids with you SOUND ASLEEP and no where in sight inside. I yelled and yelled and you didn’t wake up. And called me half an hour later when you woke up and couldn’t find her. Well Emma tried to wake you up too. And having my daughter tell me she couldn’t wake you up was scary. And there were 5 registered sex offenders within 2 blocks on either side and you knew about them BECAUSE I TOLD YOU.
AND you dated the woman who looked like the drag queen who admitted to drug problems. I could have forgiven her for the 12 colours of eye makeup but the other? And then you moved her and her mother in with you after 4 weeks. And you got arrested for 2 DUI’s in a 12 day period. And were growing pot in the back yard and got evicted. And were driving around without privileges and insurance and SHALL I GO ON?
And then your grandma assures me that its fine that I come early to pick her up on those days you see her because Emma’s ready to go after just a couple of hours- and that she makes sure you don’t sit and watch ball games while she’s there. Well thats just great. I’m so glad there is a responsible person around. I think we’ll stick to the bare minimum of whats legally required.
And now you want ME to drive to Nampa on Saturdays so you can have your Saturday visits. You’ll pay for my gas? How very magnanimous.
I’m so glad you can afford to pay for gas but yeah, what about child support? Do you know what that is? You’ll pay for my gas but you can’t bother to pay child support?
Oh, don’t worry- I pay for everything Emma needs. She has new shoes and a warm coat and we take her to a good preschool. She gets good food and we take her to the park and the movies and the zoo.
I’m so angry.
I swear, if Jeff asks me why I can’t just work with him one more time I’ll scream.
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#1 by Trojan on March 9, 2008 - 2:08 am
men suck…I thought of you today at the sale. Wish you could have shopped with me:(
B
#2 by Digits on March 9, 2008 - 3:51 am
That sounds like an awesome sale. I would have loved coming with you
What I don’t say in that post is how wonderful Brian is- how loving to Emma he is, how supportive he is, we would be okay without him, but we couldn’t live in this nice apartment without him- He is the dad Emma has never had and the husband I’ve always wanted. And he does it because he loves us.
He gets mad at Jeff too- because were he in Jeff’s shoes he’d step up to the plate and be a man, and he doesn’t understand why Jeff doesn’t.
But thats why Brian is the way he is- He is one of the most decent and caring human beings I’ve ever met. I am so blessed!
I can’t complain- they found Jeff and garnished his wages and he QUIT after one paycheck being garnished. The ass hole. But at least I’ve had 200 dollars worth of help this year, right?
LOL
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Karma is a bitch. I really try to let go of the anger. But every once in a while it overwhelms me.
#3 by Finchstalker on March 9, 2008 - 11:57 pm
With an ex like that, it sounds like you have every right to be overwhelmed with anger every now and then.
Brian sounds like the perfect guy. It’s awesome that you have him!
#4 by Digits on March 10, 2008 - 9:42 pm
Well I like him