It so pisses me off when someone is having a hard time and someone says “it will get better…its not forever…other people have lived through it…(insert other phrases here)” like the person HAVING the hard time has no reason to be upset/sad/anxious/grieving/worried/angry.
Cause guess what?
SOMETIMES it doesn’t get better.
Sometimes it gets worse.
And sometimes the worst happens.
And then you just have to deal and it sucks.
Sometimes the hardest part of being a friend is letting a person feel all they have to feel and stick around.
In the end all you can really say is “I’m here for you” and then BE there and hope that its enough…
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#1 by Trojan on May 29, 2008 - 1:02 pm
so freaking true…
#2 by Kate Michele on May 29, 2008 - 3:49 pm
exactly.
you never care that others have gone through it. YOU are going through it now and thats all you can see.
you get the friendship thing. your friends are very lucky to have you.
xox